Every now and then you are challenged by something out of left field.
Yesterday I was sent a link to a short film called "Divided we stand". A young film maker decided to investigate why it was that so many young people are leaving the churches they grew up in and going full on into the world.
The premise interested me, as I also have wondered about that. I was saved at 16years old, so personally am a "first generation Christian", but a lot of the people who I then saw go through the church I was at, and some of the associated churches, jumped ship somewhere along the way.
While there are a few things that bugged me about the film, the basics were almost a solidifying of things that my wife and I have been talking about for some time, but had never joined all the pieces together.
The film asks if Youth groups and Sunday School are really Biblical, and maybe it is this reliance on non-Biblical things that is causing many children to grow up without a real respect for, or in some cases understanding of, God's Word.
It is obvious to me that the majority of Christians I meet have very little understanding of the Word of God, often even at a basic level. And I blame that on the modern idea of the "entertaining Church" - not that church should be boring, but the idea of 45 mins of songs and performance by bands etc, followed by 5 or 10 mins of weak preaching, may be entertaining, but it does not equip and strengthen "christians" for the warfare of life in this world. However that is a great description of most youth groups - the main focus is the fun and games, with a 5 mins devotion, if the kids are lucky. We talk against churches that do this is their main service, but this is what we do in our youth groups - we train them to at best search out this sort of service.
The main thought that impacted me about this though, is that Sunday School and Youth Group both take the place of teaching young people about the Lord, but that is a task that the Bible places fairly and squarely on the shoulders of the Parents, and most specifically on the Father.
Now I know that most guys are happy to let others take their responsibilities, particularly where family are involved - that is why we see so many women today taking the spiritual lead in families - they say "The guys won't do it, so I have to". What they don't realise is that the guys know full well that the ladies WILL do it, if they don't, so the guys don't bother. This is not universal, but it is common.
That same "Bloke" attitude can be seen in the situation that the movies explores as well. The guys see that the local Church will teach their children the things of the Lord for them, and they feel like they don't have to - so they don't. As a result the kids see that spiritual things are not important, and so they follow the example of the father, no matter how good the teaching of the Sunday school teachers and youth leaders may be - and then the parents blame the youth leader/sunday school teacher.
In their haste to teach the young people about the Lord (a good motive!) they are talking the responsibility away from the place where God put it, and in fact teaching by example that men can do God's thing in their own way.
Pro 14:12 There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.
Is this what we are seeing? Men doing God's things Men's way - and it is indeed leading to spiritual death among the next generation?
Our church already has a separate hour before the main service, so that the whole family can be in for the main preaching. It is something that I have always felt was important, and while I didn't start it as soon as I took over here, I started it as soon as I thought people could handle another hour of teaching.
Funny thing is, although some people were complaining that they didn't much teaching here previously (Which was a lie really - they just weren't listening!), I can't get many adults to the adult Sunday School, and as a result we have few kids in junior Sunday School - we already have no "Middle Sunday School" and the all the kids over about 8 are in the adult Sunday School.
I have been wondering what to do about it, and I think I am beginning to form some ideas, prompted by this movie, which has rolled some of my thoughts and concerns into a ball that I had not put together myself.
Sometimes we need to be pushed a little from the side to help us realise what we can see - if that makes sense.
I am excited by the prospects of the ideas that are running through my head at the moment.
And they are not ideas of so called "better music" and "more dynamic service" - but ideas of far more intimate and directed teaching of those who should be taking their responsibilities.
I have wondered how to help people to forsake the milk of the Word and get into the meat - if they are 'forced' to take their responsibilities, then maybe, just maybe they will learn enough to be able to fulfill those responsibilities.
This could be far more than saving the next generation of children from forsaking the Lord - this could impact on every aspect of the Christian life of those within my reach and responsibility.
And it may stop more people forsaking the truth of God's Word over a few issues where they feel there is a lack, not of truth, but of practice.
Skellibert.